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Media Naranja – Half orange in Spanish which means soul mate or better half.



Grow old with me, The best is yet to be ........................Robert Browning.

Does soul mate exists only in fairytales?  I have known people who argue that soul mates concept don’t exist in real world. On the contrary, I have seen people, who are just made for each other, have been a live example of the same. I would want to throw a light on this subject and know what you feel on the same.

Who is a true soul mate? By reading this question, everyone would be thinking it must be or should be one’s husband or one’s wife/spouse.

I would want you to think more deeply on the same. Does your wife really qualify to be your soul mate? And yo wife, what do you think? Does the person with whom you are sharing your life really pass the test of soul mate?

Here if the answer is yes, then I would be happiest.

Let me tell you,

A friend can be a soul mate. A spouse can be your soulmate. Your mother, father, brother and sister, your teacher, mentor too can be your soul mate. Not necessary that your hubby or wife sole should be your soul mate. Just because you both have married and agreed to stay together for lifetime, it does not mean they match up to the soul mate standards. Your friend who is opposite sex may understand you more than your hubby or wife. They can be termed as soul mates no matter you guys are not together or stay with each other. Soul mate is a bond which implies the feelings of deep affection, spiritual connect and emotional affinity. You could say karmic connection or a connotation of being the strongest bond with another person.

Sometimes we don’t meet some people or share the daily happenings with them, but when you happen to meet them someday by chance, you will not feel that you have missed them. You connect within a fraction of a second. May be that what a spiritual or karmic connection is.

 To recollect, I know a person who is my good friend. She is married and their connection was so strong that both of them were drawn to each and their relationship developed over a period of time. They have connected in many ways. Really astounding isn’t it? The important criterion is you should share a comfortable relationship with the other person. You don’t have to change or modify yourself and can be just YOU. No conditions apply. And you should accept that person as he/she is.

Soulmates – Better half or your reflection!!

Find a person who knows the hidden music in you

Comments

  1. Beautiful thought!!!

    I have friends whom I call my soulmates but have never met so I can relate to this :)

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    1. Gracias ........one must be very lucky to have friends like these....

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