Grow old with me, The best is yet to be ........................Robert Browning.
Does soul mate exists only in
fairytales? I have known people who
argue that soul mates concept don’t exist in real world. On the contrary, I have
seen people, who are just made for each other, have been a live example of the
same. I would want to throw a light on this subject and know what you feel on
the same.
Who is a true soul mate? By reading
this question, everyone would be thinking it must be or should be one’s husband
or one’s wife/spouse.
I would want you to think more deeply
on the same. Does your wife really qualify to be your soul mate? And yo wife,
what do you think? Does the person with whom you are sharing your life really pass
the test of soul mate?
Here if the answer is yes, then I would
be happiest.
Let me tell you,
A friend can be a soul mate. A spouse
can be your soulmate. Your mother, father, brother and sister, your teacher,
mentor too can be your soul mate. Not necessary that your hubby or wife sole
should be your soul mate. Just because you both have married and agreed to stay
together for lifetime, it does not mean they match up to the soul mate
standards. Your friend who is opposite sex may understand you more than your
hubby or wife. They can be termed as soul mates no matter you guys are not
together or stay with each other. Soul mate is a bond which implies the feelings
of deep affection, spiritual connect and emotional affinity. You could say
karmic connection or a connotation of being the strongest bond with another
person.
Sometimes we don’t meet some people
or share the daily happenings with them, but when you happen to meet them
someday by chance, you will not feel that you have missed them. You connect
within a fraction of a second. May be that what a spiritual or karmic
connection is.
To recollect, I know a person who is my good
friend. She is married and their connection was so strong that both of them
were drawn to each and their relationship developed over a period of time. They
have connected in many ways. Really astounding isn’t it? The important criterion
is you should share a comfortable relationship with the other person. You don’t
have to change or modify yourself and can be just YOU. No conditions apply. And
you should accept that person as he/she is.
Soulmates – Better half or your
reflection!!
Find a person who knows the hidden
music in you
Beautiful thought!!!
ReplyDeleteI have friends whom I call my soulmates but have never met so I can relate to this :)
Gracias ........one must be very lucky to have friends like these....
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