Saturday, May 12, 2012

Is it the Grass greener or you make it look green???

The grass is greener on the other side of the fence. This is the cheesy line which everyone throws when he/ she is left out with some difficulty. But whats the exact theory behind it.

Once Mr.A couldn’t clear the interview. However, Mr.B who appeared for the same cleared it in one go. He got the job. Mr.A simply couldn’t digest it and said that Mr.B got the job because his cousin was in the same company. This can be one of the reason but not entirely true. What about your hardwork and efforts. You don’t have to make any excuses for your lack of preparation.

The people have to find the solution for any given problem rather throwing the bullet on other person’s court.

If the grass is greener on the other side, it’s the fault of the gardener and not the grass. You should water it and make it strong and greener and certainly not blame it on the grass. You have to make an effort to face the situation and go extra mile. You cannot be a coward and sit back and wait for the things to happen.

Live in this moment rather thinking what the future is in store for you. If you do not make the things happen in present moment, the future would not seem brighter. Future lies in present.

So before falling for the future tense, please make strong your present tense or else you have to be tensed all your life.


  1. Lovely thought :)

    Somehow I feel I needed this today. Thank you so much !!

  2. You are always welcome.......:)

    You cannot judge the path unless you have really walked in it....

    Take care!!

  3. The story of Mr A and Mr B also reminds of another saying " Sour Grapes"...But yes one needs to be in a situation to understand it

  4. Exactly......Every situation is a learning experience and one should not criticize it.....

  5. If the grass is greener on the other side,the sprinkler or the man has worked more.That is the secret for success.Nice post

    1. Yes exactly.....there is no substitute for hardwork....the efforts should be put and then you should decide.......But never get disheartened with the failures you face...You get multiple experiences.....

      Thanks ya:)

  6. Ahh well narrated!
    future depends on present that how we are utilizing the time we have in our hands.
    We can't bind the time,
    can't carry our age,
    can't depict the future,
    we are the maker of our own,
    can hold the blowing
    waves from overblown.........